TAKE CARE OF SOCIETY. SOCIETY WILL NOT DO ANYTHING FOR YOU BUT IT INTERESTED IN YOUR RELATIONS. IT IS VERY POWERFUL IT CAN DEFAME YOU AND ALSO MAKE YOU AS IT WANTS.
SO IN INDIA FOR A LONGER RELATIONSHIP DON'T GO OUTSIDE 'SO CALLED' SOCIETY LIMITS AND 'PERMISSIONS!'
AND FROM OUR TV AND CINEMA VIEWPOINT, UPPER TWO USER COMMENTS ARE RIGHT.
relationship exists longer when people are quite interested in the very relation & their mates who is society to do/say anything !!!!!!!!!!!!! society is there to just speak ,it will speak the nuisance only what should matter us , 1)we should not get lost out of our senses(jas.) AND 2) we should LISTEN TO OUR FAMILY CAUSE IT WILL ONLY LAST WITH US FOR years all long
this is the country, where two friends are blamed, where a student and teacher are blamed, where a brother and sister are blamed.
One can hear bad for himself, but not for his loved ones.
So, if you want to be in India, be within the 'limits' of society.
Here if you are male, whatever potential you see in your female companion(colleague/student/friend/sister), forget it. You are just not 'permitted' to talk each other. So, is there place of any relationship?
i don't believe .relationships means everything b/w you and your loving ones(companion,colleague/student/friend/sister),etc not the society.....relationships need not place in society but in heart:)
ya , there are some cases in which we should not cross the limits of the society to maintain our relationship but if you feel like that what you are going to do is better for your life and you can handle it well then just move on ..... everybody's thinking is different and we cant say that society ( which is the group of different type of people possessing diff. views) will agree with your every decision. it's decision will always be opposite to that of yours.
and the factors for forever relationship depends upon that about which type of relationship you are talking
if the relationship is between two persons then the above mentioned factors are important as this relationship will just effect your's or your friend's life and not of the others.......
but if you want to maintain your relationship with society then you have to care about the society and its views......
yes!!! since throughout our whole life we have to live in society only, so care must be taken......
but it feels irritating when someone unwanted and unknown ( i mean except the ones who cares for us like our parents , friends , teachers , brother/sister )peeks into your life and comment when the matter is about you and not about others!!!
SO DEAR FRIENDS I GUESS THE CONCLUSION SHOULD BE THAT before getting into a relationship one has be in limits _(daayra) society is an integral part of our lives_(we should TRY to satisfy the societys' laws &order BUT not by being their slaves) FINALLY WE SHOULD MAINTAIN OUR SELF-ESTEEM AND YES,THE RELATIONSHIP AS WELL all the best Sweta CHATURBEDI
yes, but this conclusion sounds good but very tough to implement. As your jokes cannot make the whole crowd laugh, but your pain can drive attention of everyone in mob.
Wear a nice dress, and very few will notice you, Get your dress a little teared off, whole world will watch you.
So, trying to satisfy the society, is next to impossible! And limits! Who will define the limits?
But anyways, this is a good discussion by Rapstar and her friends. Good to see such type of thoughts at this age. Your life just got started, so dump worries and juice out fun out of life. Best of luck!
trust
ReplyDeletefeelings
understanding
same whatever u said+love and care for each other
ReplyDeleteTAKE CARE OF SOCIETY. SOCIETY WILL NOT DO ANYTHING FOR YOU BUT IT INTERESTED IN YOUR RELATIONS. IT IS VERY POWERFUL IT CAN DEFAME YOU AND ALSO MAKE YOU AS IT WANTS.
ReplyDeleteSO IN INDIA FOR A LONGER RELATIONSHIP DON'T GO OUTSIDE 'SO CALLED' SOCIETY LIMITS AND 'PERMISSIONS!'
AND FROM OUR TV AND CINEMA VIEWPOINT, UPPER TWO USER COMMENTS ARE RIGHT.
relationship exists longer when people are quite interested in the very relation & their mates
ReplyDeletewho is society to do/say anything !!!!!!!!!!!!!
society is there to just speak ,it will speak the nuisance only
what should matter us ,
1)we should not get lost out of our senses(jas.)
AND
2) we should LISTEN TO OUR FAMILY
CAUSE IT WILL ONLY LAST WITH US FOR years all long
so true
ReplyDeletethis is the country, where two friends are blamed, where a student and teacher are blamed, where a brother and sister are blamed.
ReplyDeleteOne can hear bad for himself, but not for his loved ones.
So, if you want to be in India, be within the 'limits' of society.
Here if you are male, whatever potential you see in your female companion(colleague/student/friend/sister), forget it. You are just not 'permitted' to talk each other. So, is there place of any relationship?
i don't believe .relationships means everything b/w you and your loving ones(companion,colleague/student/friend/sister),etc not the society.....relationships need not place in society but in heart:)
ReplyDeletewe r the future makers of india
ReplyDeletewe can
we can try...............
we can face
OR WE CAN REBEL
:):)yes!
ReplyDeleteya , there are some cases in which we should not cross the limits of the society to maintain our relationship
ReplyDeletebut if you feel like that what you are going to do is better for your life and you can handle it well then just move on .....
everybody's thinking is different and we cant say that society ( which is the group of different type of people possessing diff. views) will agree with your every decision. it's decision will always be opposite to that of yours.
and the factors for forever relationship depends upon that about which type of relationship you are talking
if the relationship is between two persons then
the above mentioned factors are important as this relationship will just effect your's or your friend's life and not of the others.......
but if you want to maintain your relationship with society then you have to care about the society and its views......
Two persons come from society and they live in society as a part of it. Like if it is raining, you can't keep yourself dry while going out.
ReplyDeleteyes!!!
ReplyDeletesince throughout our whole life we have to live in society only, so care must be taken......
but it feels irritating when someone unwanted and unknown ( i mean except the ones who cares for us like our parents , friends , teachers , brother/sister )peeks into your life and comment when the matter is about you and not about others!!!
For unwanted interference: Oppose it or Ignore it!
ReplyDeleteya!!!
ReplyDeletei completely agree with that.....
SO DEAR FRIENDS I GUESS THE CONCLUSION SHOULD BE THAT
ReplyDeletebefore getting into a relationship
one has be in limits _(daayra)
society is an integral part of our lives_(we should TRY to satisfy the societys' laws &order BUT not by being their slaves)
FINALLY WE SHOULD MAINTAIN OUR SELF-ESTEEM
AND YES,THE RELATIONSHIP AS WELL
all the best
Sweta
CHATURBEDI
yes, but this conclusion sounds good but very tough to implement. As your jokes cannot make the whole crowd laugh, but your pain can drive attention of everyone in mob.
ReplyDeleteWear a nice dress, and very few will notice you, Get your dress a little teared off, whole world will watch you.
So, trying to satisfy the society, is next to impossible! And limits! Who will define the limits?
But anyways, this is a good discussion by Rapstar and her friends. Good to see such type of thoughts at this age.
Your life just got started, so dump worries and juice out fun out of life. Best of luck!